Hadrianus, I am going through a similar question. While I am not being given 90 days for the divorce, I am being given similar timelimit to sell or purchase off the W the house, investment property and new car. My view, trying to hold onto these items to postpone the divorce is simply not going to work. I think she will continue to not love me just as much as she does now. But, if I do sell/buy the assets now (or in the next 2 months) then, and it is a small then, maybe her emotion might change to be more than non-loving. Why hold off something for zero chance of making a difference. My wife is going to either decide to divorce me or reconcile sometime down the track, selling or not selling the assets will not make her change her mind at all.
ME:51 W:46 M:25 S:22, S:20 Divorced 16/9/15 BD 10/12 W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12. Dark since 6/13 I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.
