That's a tough one to be sure. I guess my question is do you think you will gain anything by postponing the D? Or is it just going to make things uglier between you and W?
I think if I don't handle it well it will get ugly. I may just tell her I need a couple of more months to "let go," she may understand that.
I just feel like I have a better chance of reconciling if I am still married even if things are a bit ugly. I have been doing everything right as far as 180's and detaching. I do feel like if I postpone things she may get her head out of the fog and start to notice at some point.
