Thanks. Yes, 90 days S and then D. I can legally have a two year separation though. She has brought up why I have not responede to the D papers and I told her I am still weighing my options. At some point I will need to make it clear that I don't want the D in 90 days. All hell will probably break loose at that time, but why shouldn't I have more than 90 days after 15 years together? I guess I will deal with it when the time comes.
That's a tough one to be sure. I guess my question is do you think you will gain anything by postponing the D? Or is it just going to make things uglier between you and W?
