I might have backslide a little here but I acted on emotion and replied to her text with 'Ok thanks. I don't mind them walking round but part of me thinks ur avoiding me? I hope not as its not healthy' I'm being honest I knew I was going to send that if she let the kids walk to me because that's how I feel. Was that right or wrong of me?
It was pressure and you don't want to apply any pressure at all to her. It wasn't a huge backslide or anything, I wouldn't worry about it. But avoid such comments in the future.
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So anyway I took kids to see my Nan, their Great Grandmother as it was her 89th birthday then I took them to the shopping outlet as S3 has worn the same pair of trousers 3 weeks in a row and now have a hole in one of the knees so I went and bought him 2 sweaters, 2 pair of jeans and a pair of trainers (sneakers?) I even got my D9 a pair of Nike high tops really cheap. We then went food shopping where we got some cookie mix so we could go home and make cookies for everyone, just a shame I burnt them later on!
Fantastic, this is exactly the kind of stuff you can do that will impress your W without you even seeing her. Take the kids out to do fun stuff and they will go back and tell your W how much fun they had. Win-win
