2, I’ve only read the last few pages. My X cut off anyone that did not take her side and has consistently pushed family and friends to take her side. She continues to seek solace and justification for her decision. These efforts cause pain and most of the family has had enough. She is not a happy camper. She does not know how to be.

There comes a point when one needs to leave the drama and those that cause it behind and focus on building up ourselves using what is left as a starting point.

There is no good reason not to continue these relationships. There are many arguments for continuing these relationships.

Yeah it is difficult at first, and sometimes painful. Perhaps that is one of the reasons they don’t. I submit that is exactly why we should.

I agree there is no reason to go into detail.

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Me 55, ACK, when did that happen? Doesn't feel like 55
D 30
S 27

You create your own universe as you go along - Winston Churchill