Crim as I am not one to give advice on piecing, it is clear to me that your path is clear. You've owned your mistakes from the past and did a very good job in my opinion becoming a better person. It seems that some of the posts I read on here have the same tone. The WAS does in fact try to rewrite history to lean towards themselves and less culpability, and make the LBS take most of the blame. I agree the past is the past. Maybe the new Crim she is also afraid of and right now is confused. I believe that the pressure is now off of you and on her. You can clearly look her in the eye and hold your head up. I don't think you could have done that pre-bomb. You have always been in there and loosing something that you treasure makes you better for the next chapter in your life. Your ex needs to realize this on her own, you want her to be the next chapter and will do whatever it takes to help her get right, and maybe just maybe your son will see two people he loves together. Good Luck and keep us updated.
