Thanks snoddery
I do need prayers!
I know people have advised me not to tell mom in law. But if ow goes with h I think he's planning on bringing her into the family circle. If my mom in law wants to know why I filed it seems that I should tell her. Otherwise what do I say? That we just can't get along? He told his mom it wasn't me but him. She'll wonder why I filed cuz she thinks I didn't want this.