Thread #8 - It's time.

[Navyguy]

Not yet...but consider it added to tonight's agenda.

I'll tie it in to the discussion on whether or not she is committed to being M to me and making this work. She has had 2 weeks to think about her answer to that since I first asked her -That is enough time to figure that out, isn't it?

If she is committed, I am more than willing to be patient with the lack of sex/affection - but only if I see her taking consistent action toward making our M work.

If she is not committed or "not sure", then she needs to stop wasting my time.

I never had a "wild and crazy" period where I hooked up with anyone I could. I've been with 4 women total (don't laugh you Arrested Development fans). The first 3 were a couple times each. W was my 4th. Since the ILYBINILY letter back in 2009, I'd say I could easily count the total number of times we've ML on my fingers and toes. So at most, for the last 4 years, I've been averaging 5 times a year.

As much as I dislike what I just typed, it did give me some clarity. Why would anyone put themselves through this for this long???

As has been said...life is short.