Hello! Back in late November I discovered an email from my wife to a friend indicating she was not happy. I asked her about it a few days before thanksgiving and life has been different since. The old line she loves me but is not in love with me. Also, she has been classic MLC with new clothes, weight loss, bars with divorced girl friends on ladies night out, wedding rings off, new music, and a friend who has gone a completely different direction in her life as well. She spends most days with this friend.
We have a counselor that recommended “The Divorce Remedy” which I have read and am working on the 180 and started down that path 4 weeks ago. My problem is that I am very good at it 95% of the time. It’s the 5% that has probably got me in the 1 step ahead 2 steps back. I am looking for the magic trick to walk away when something irritates me that she does. I am having a hard time dealing with a W who 10 weeks ago was fun and great to be around to someone who I still love dearly but seems to be in a mode or being mean to here H and sometimes to here kids.
