My grandmother passed away last night. I got the message from my sister and it was really hard for me and my family. My grandparents raised me and my sister for a few years after our parents divorced and my dad attended state police training. It has been so very hard over the last year with several co-workers, my mom and now my grandmother passing away.

I did text (not my preferred method of communication) my W back to let her know that my grandmother had passed and she said she was sorry. She called a few minutes later and said she was sorry again. It was a short and uncomfortable conversation. She said she was sorry and I said thanks and left it at that. She appears to not seem to want to reach out to any of my other family members and offer condolences. She then said for me to let her know the arrangements. I said I would.