We do not recommend taking your ring off. It could send a finite signal to your spouse. However what may be worse is a back and forth signal. If you do take it off, wait til your spouse shows a move towards you before putting it back on.
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I had not been wearing it for a while prior to the BD because of my weight gain. Since the BD, I've lost weight and it fits again so I have started wearing it again.
I meet with my W and the paralegal tomorrow. It's the first time I will have seen her since the BD (5 weeks ago). Any advice? I don't even know how to greet her? Hug? Handshake? Jeez, what a horrible situation this is.
On the plus side, I went on a wonderful 3.7 mile walk across some hilly terrain yesterday. Saw some incredible vistas. Tonight it's the gym after work.
