It sounds like he didn't say, "I'd love for you to drive up on Sun and go to the festival with me" or was he expecting you to mind read?

You think you got through it but did you solve anything or will this happen again the next time.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss