Hey Turtle,you had asked about my sitch.....
Ruby wink

I think the tennis sounds great. H is always commenting on what a full, active life I lead and how he is proud of me (even though he knows it sounds weird...)

You need something to do that will allow the passion to shine through. When it does, it is unmistakable. I have a GAL that is fun and intensely rewarding on a personal and volunteer level. H sees how much I enjoy it and, for instance, drove out here (one hour) to take D to activity because I had gotten dates wrong for a certification level in my GAL.

So when you find something that you love, it shows smile Even Tennis, which is beyond my capability.....