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[dorightman]

Actually, after reading my last post, I have to correct myself.

The reason she became scared or paranoid was because I did have some emotional breakdowns in front of her and the kids. I was up in the middle of the night crying, and I kept flip-flopping about moving out. She kept pressuring me to move out, so the pattern became that she pressured until I couldn't take it anymore. Then I said "ok, I'll look for a place." Then I looked and couldn't deal with it and went home again. These patterns happened over and over again until she didn't trust anything I said anymore.