Thank you Starsky, He said he's willing to write the letter but not for the money. Instead, the money is off the table. He knows that I will be expecting a letter from him to OW if we continue to work on reconciling and said he's willing to do it, but not now, not like this.
Funny thing (not so funny cuz I was emotional) today. He admitted to lying to me about something way back when all this started. Reminded me of the saying, don't believe any of what you hear.
M 42 H 39 T10 (-2yrs separation) S8 D5 DD 7/30/11 (EA&PA) Reconciled 6/2013 Separation in works 1/2017