Yes we camp a lot here as well....I have been trying to get out more...I am like you though no much into partying..my 180s are to get out and meet new people and I am guessing from reading your post that may be what you need to do as well. The media has really glamorized this whole seperation thing lately. How are your girls doing with all this my d(11) seems to be having the hardest..yes it has been a long cold winter...trying to get as much sunshine as possible...