Okay. Sounds good. She definitely is looking for the "aha!" . I will not give it to her, no matter what buttons she pushes. I don't think she will bring anything up though...she is doing everything through L now. Other than that it is passive-aggressive behaviour and coldness.

M17 yrs.
me49
xW47
d15
d11

BD1-Jul/11(Affair found out)
Therapy 9 months (tried 2)
BD2- May/12(sep)
Court Jul/13 - I got 50/50
Sold home - Aug/13
Court #2 - Dec/13
Court#3 - Apr/14 ... She lost again
We settled.