In my opinion you shouldn't be even entertaining with the idea of talking to her about R.... especially when you haven't read the DR yet! Please do not, read it first ask for opinions from others here and take steps slowly..
M37 H36 M8 T12 inc 3yr L-dist 7/12:H broke down 10/12:H dad D frm W4. BD soon after 1/13:H wants to leave 2/13:H gpa passed. Feels closer but H still leaving 3/13: S begins