First time to post on your thread. I just wanted to also say that you should get her a b-day gift. Past Christmas I didn't get him any Christmas gifts but got him few inexpensive small gifts. One of them was a t-shirt that says to bring back XX (tv show he LOVES but cancelled) Apparently there are a whole bunch more people like him who wanted that TV show to come back. I remember I used to make fun of the show all the time. We joke and tease each other about things we both like.. but I wondered how he must have felt when he was not in a good mood for me to say "That's such a stupid show it was cancelled for a reason" I was kidding of course but not a nice thing to say AT ALL.
When he saw the T-shirt, he was genuinely excited about it. I also chose a card that didn't have any husband-wife mushy messages but instead chose the one that said "Bday is about the journey and wherever the year ahead takes you hope it's happy" and I just wrote I want you to be happy.
M37 H36 M8 T12 inc 3yr L-dist 7/12:H broke down 10/12:H dad D frm W4. BD soon after 1/13:H wants to leave 2/13:H gpa passed. Feels closer but H still leaving 3/13: S begins