We've both had EA's that ended over a year ago. I would say the biggest problems we have right now is that I think he's having a MLC. He seems pre-occupied with his legacy, acting younger than he is (trying to come across as a 20 something), wanting to be an authority figure in the family without actually shouldering the responsibility. I never really considered MLC until a few days ago.
We are both in 12 step.
I'll let everyone know how the conversation goes.
Thanks for the support.
M: 44 H: 49 4 children from previous R (3 @ home, 1 in college) M: 4 S: 12/12 H wants to come home: 2/13