the guy that was happy with himself and happy with life whether a woman was in it or not. And there were several women in those days. I think that was part of why they were attracted to me (and maybe W too), because I really didn't care whether they joined me in life or not.
This part caught my attention. Maybe a year ago we(me and x) was laying in bed talking about what made us come together. She said "before I got to know you, you caught my attention b/c you could talk/flirt/etc with girls, but you never NEEDED them, you were fine on your own, independent" I remember thinking "yeeeah..I remember that guy, where the h*ck did he go?!" LOL.
You seem to be in a good place AS. I haven't had any "feelings-talk" with my X, but it would sting to hear "done" over and over. Keep on keeping on AS!
Together for 8,5 years. S2 Interest in OM. She left 29.09.12 b/c we couldn't work things out. No signs of OM, not digging. Living in seperate homes, sharing custody.
