I get it SS, and I'm concerned that I would be in the same boat as you. I've never known how to "go back." Like when after you learn something hurtful? How do you "unknow" it.
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One good thing that he told me is that he learned to do things by himself and enjoy them during our time apart. Prior to that, anytime I declined, he felt rejection.
So if you've learned to enjoy activities without him, and he's learned to enjoy activities without you, what is the problem currently? Are you doing *anything* together? Do you *want* to do anything with him, or are you struggling with resentment perhaps?
