You are right, dating is a bad idea and tbh I am not there yet and agree it would be hard to keep something casual if it goes well.
Thanks for the comments re S it means a lot. In fact I think it is the first time ever someone has said that (including W) so thank you.
I have said before how relationship with S is blossoming to a new level. I also feel incredibly sad for him as the innocent in all this and am determined not to let him down.
Also remembered it was this time last year that W first said she needed space and proceeded to go away with a friend for a few days (she had been confused since December). She came back and threw her arms around me and things seemed great. Boy do I wish I had discovered DB back then. I think things would have definately been different now.
