Rkyfat,

I think you're right to ignore Valentine's day and yet get your W something for her bday--especially if it's from you and S.

I think your practice at flirting sounds good. I really don't know about casual dating. It's hard to keep it casual if it goes well... Also, maybe not fair on the women who may have trouble keeping it casual. Then again, I can see how it could help you detach. Sorry, I don't have any answers.

I'm so impressed with how you spend your time with S12. He is very lucky to have you as his dad.


Me: 51
H: 52
T: 23 yrs
M: 19 yrs
S18, D16, S14 (special needs)
PA: 2003/2004
Piecing: 2004 on
Suspect H had EA: 8/2012-12/2012