idk, it sounds like a lot of convincing going on to me. Convincing us that you are happier now, (if you are, great. No need to spend so much energy convincing us) That W was a poor spouse and will never change. That she is DONE and will not change her mind. That you were never "Head over Heals" in love with her. (hence the search for "Fireworks Love")
I agree with others that you have helped many on this board. Yes, you can certainly talk the talk, and have excellent writing skills.
I also agree with you that we all are in charge of when to call it quits. Nothing wrong with throwing in the towel, even if others may think it's a little (or a lot) too early.
Are you filing for D?
M: A really long time. Crisis: 5 years. She's still worth it.
Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl
