I started to write the D book. What kinds of things would you want to see? I'm focusing on how to emotionally handle a separation/divorce. Anything else?
The entire journey the LBS goes through. The importance of owning up to your part in the failure of the R, and making yourself a better person/spouse. The importance of allowing enough time to ensure "No stone was left unturned" in an effort to save the Marriage so that you can move on with as few regrets as possible if/when it comes to that. How there can always be hope. How the LBS does actually have some power and control.
Oh, and I'm assuming that all of us in your thread will be receiving a signed copy. I'll take mine with a lipstick kiss planted on it too, please!
M: A really long time. Crisis: 5 years. She's still worth it.
Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl
I'll take mine with a lipstick kiss planted on it too, please! 
