Little - I also like the idea of the ride to the party together. A good opportunity for YOU on several levels I think. To exercise your 180s for yourself (to see how much you have changed for yourself) and an opportunity for your H to see them as well. And to hopefully leave him thinking a little bit more....

One thing I was advised early on is to simply take things at face value. H does something nice like clearing the drive from the snow? It's a nice gesture and that is all... Don't look for any other meanings. As if a friend neighbour had offered to do the same. It's hard to do.. But it helped and helps me a lot still.

((()))

TPS
Me: 44 H: 42
M14 T17
S10 D7
10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month
21/04/12 H is 'DONE'
04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010)
July '14 H ends affair
May '15 H moves back home