Stop telling him. Telling him many times will only make him close his ears more. This is probably just "more of the same" for him.

Why can't things be decided while still in the home?
Why do you have your D 12 days out of 14?

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss