All that is pressure and only serves to make him press back.

Stop the resistance, live your life, keep working on yourself and let him worry about the D.

I'm not sure what "giving up" means to you. Can you explain?

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss