I think sometimes as the LBS, we search for/want answers so much, even if its not what we want to hear. Sounds like you got a lot of info yesterday, which I think is truly a testament to wife feeling "safe" with you.
I like that you told her you weren't going to do this forever. I feel/think the same thing everyday. It's one thing to live this way temporarily as we are choosing to stand, but totally different to spend the rest of our lives this way. Not gonna happen!
After reading your post, I thought of another Foo Fighters song-
"It's times like these you learn to live again It's times like these you give and give again It's times like these you learn to love again It's times like these time and time again"
I know happy times are ahead for you - keep up the awesome work T!
Bomb January 2012 - doesn't feel the same about me
~ "There is nothing love cannot face; there is no limit to its faith, hope, and endurance."