T The tides are changing! She's waking up a bit each and every time she talks to you. You continue to validate her thoughts and feelings and she feels very safe with you.
You've stated how you feel and what needs to take place, now allow her to digest your coments. Patience! Continue as you have been. She's on her way home!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.