B, as you continue on this journey, you will begin to see your husband and your marriage with less and less rose colored glasses.

While every MLC is different in some ways, very often the MLCers have very similar childhood issues and personality traits.

My xh was unable to really and truly open up to anyone about anything of substance. I loved him, so I accepted it, but, it was very difficult to live with someone who was so closed off.

Little by little you will begin to see that the man you thought was wonderful, had flaws like everyone else.

You are right where you should be. Keep going.