Wife privileges reinstated, back in my own bed!

[mamabird]

H got back this afternoon. I need to remember to take this day by day and to try to lower my expectations. I realize I have a long list of stuff I was pretty dissatisfied with, and the key is not to dump that list on him - and also to not get too caught up in it myself. I have been reading Gottman while's he's been away and it's just kind of reinforced my thoughts about the things that haven't been right in the M.

That said, I have some good news on the financial situation - I think we are going to be able to refinance our mortgage finally with a decent home equity line to boot, so that should ease our debt burden considerably. And this I think will help the tension...