So she's 36. You know we start getting crazy when our biological clock starts ticking really fast. You know what people say about having kids before 35? I supported my H when he was unemployed for nearly 3 years but at the same time I was really frustrated and sad. Leaving him didn't even cross my mind because I didn't marry him for a baby but I gotta tell you I often felt overwhelmed. Once he got a job I ran at full-speed to get us pregnant. Too fast and look where I am now
Anyway, it's your life and you have to decide what's good for you but I'd take the job you mentioned especially since you say you've been struggling to find any. Why do you think she said its a bad idea? Why is it erratic? That's the only offer you currently have right?
You have got to stop emailing her or asking questions!!! You can't take back what you do or say later.
M37 H36 M8 T12 inc 3yr L-dist 7/12:H broke down 10/12:H dad D frm W4. BD soon after 1/13:H wants to leave 2/13:H gpa passed. Feels closer but H still leaving 3/13: S begins