Just to add some more info and the reason why I suspect it could be MLC: she had said in her very first email that "I had dreams and wanted a family". And a couple of months before I moved here she seemed dissatisfied with her job..said something like this is not what I want to do for the rest of my life. Was talking about her goals in the sense that they are unfulfilled but was vague. I asked her to clarify at that time but she didn't. Also while she was visiting for Christmas she said something to the effect of, if she could do it all over again, she would do things differently (regarding our marriage).