Am I kidding myself.

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Snodderly/Hopper, thank you for your comments.

Snodderly, I can't tell you how much I appreciate all your inputs to so many on this board. I am a believer that God takes us down paths for a reason (Moses, Joseph...) and I appreciate you taking what you have learned along your painful journey and sharing your wisdom. Thank you

My last post was a bit driven by the fact that i am getting ready to leave the state/country for an extended period and was being insecure at where I stand with W. Like i said i have reason to believe that her contact with OM has diminished if not stopped. I should just ask him, i see him when i go to our social gatherings... NOT. I will take the advice and continue to focus on me and those things that i do have control over.

Hopper;
"H has to see for himself that such a life with such a person is not going to make him happy."

I need to continue to remind myself this. My prayer is that she will see that her unhappiness cannot be all attributed to our M. She has to find her happiness within.