In all my time spent on this forum, I have not seen it suggested that wearing your wedding band is a good idea.
I am wearing it for myself. Do you mean it is a bad idea or just not likely to make a difference?
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I have also not seen it do anyone any good to worry about what their spouse thinks. It is a waste of time. The focus should be on you.
Well, the goal her is R, is it not? How can it not matter what my W thinks? I am trying to focus on myself in the respect of taking care of myself, improving myself, and such.
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If you have lost a lot of weight, then yes, who wouldn't notice. Again what does it matter?
You seem pretty fatalistic. I was just expressing my concerns and fears.
