It's projection. My H told me and a few others that he has lived the past 14 years in a constant state of hostility. Do I believe that? No. Do others believe it? No, except for OW who has her own interest at stake.
Funny how for instance I can point out the reality in your sitch but when it comes to my own I get bogged down in the crazy. Just shows you how distance can sometimes make things appear even clearer.
AT BD: WH 41, J 43; Bomb 2/5/2012 Two kids, one dog D Final 6/18/14 J marries OW 1/24/15 "No matter where you go, there you are"