Gonna be different now, (butterfly in hurricane).

[MrBond]

"I tell her about the money. Then she replies she wants it. Then, later the same day lawyer calls me. No it wasn't a coincidence or something Mr. Bond."

No one said it was a "coincidence". Everyone told you that if they were her L they would advise her to stay away from you and ask for money. Since you never had a talk with her, that still could be the case. You are turning it into a personal attack when it might just be the L telling her to get everything from you. 25 went over this with you already. But against everyone's suggestions, you brought up money.

"I understand the concept of saying it's not all W's fault and look inside yourself, etc... but here it's plain."

No you don't understand. What you did was wrong previously. Your W detailed everything very carefully. So either way you should have been looking inward regardless of what happened. The money issue is a consequence of it. She never wanted your money before that was very plain and she wanted you to be happy doing your own thing.

Go back and read your own posts. You were the one who wrote those things not us.