Please ignore his comments. It just insane.

When I was a teenager, we used to have these small camp fires in my cousins yard at night with sticks that we had collected that day. We somehow never collected enough sticks during the day to have the fire last long. So as the fire was dying out we would grab tiny twigs, leaves or grass and throw it into the fire. It never worked.

Your H is throwing whatever he can into the fire to keep it going


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ILYBNILWY 5/18/11
Left 7/11/11
Divorced 12/1/13