Well, it's my problem if he tries to make it mine. He's said in the past that one of his biggest complaints about me is that I didn't want to do things with him. Of course, I feel this is an exaggeration and rewriting history. It was true, to an extent, during the last year or so we were together. I was so resentful of his D23 living with us and treating me disrespectfully that I withdrew from him and our relationship.
We had usually done a lot together before that period of time. However, during our S, I began to realize that I went along with a lot and didn't express my preferences, just kept trying to be a good companion for him.
We have discussed it some. I do things without him now, mostly with my grandkids and my son and his wife. I don't know, Bug. I guess I would like to say no, I'd rather read a good book than go to some event but after I go, I realize I really enjoyed myself and I'm glad I went.
Maybe I'm just trying to keep from feeling controlled again? It's really confusing for me now.
M:63 H:53 S:41, SS:28, SS:25, SD:23 M:15 T:16
Bomb:12/17/11, "I think we should go our separate ways." H moves to his mother's house, 4/1/12 12/21/12: H moves back home, piecing
