Yes, vero, don't let him piecemeal this. Either he's committed or he isn't. Don't be afraid to ask for what you need, you and your children are worth it.

And I'd take the money thing off the table completely.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss