Fear is real. Fear is something you can never get rid of. It's understanding that fear, acknowledging it and moving past it that will get you moving forward.
Well said Bond. I think I will print this out and tape it to my mirror to read everyday.
Grizz, I don't think that having the legal bond officially done will change anything as far as feelings go. I didn't need a piece of paper to tell me I loved my wife in the first place. So I guess I shouldn't be afraid of it.
GTO, I hear what you are saying. I don't think I am afraid of loving someone like I love my wife. I just wonder if there will always be a part of me that I can't give to someone else.
My fear is the same! That I will have a part of me that always will live him & it will somehow deminish the next R. Ah, fear. But I don't have to let it paralyze me,
M: 9 yrs T: 13 yrs H:34 Me:35, S4, D2, S 7 months Dday 11/12-PA & multiple PAs Dbing 12/12 S 1/13 7/13 H moved back in basement. 8/13 #3 born 10/13 still cheating 10/13 He moves across country, I file for D
