hi, eyes, Your thread title also caught my attention. I can relate to all your fears. Someone posted on my thread about how "you may think you will always love your H, but if love is not reciprocated after while it will diminish to a memory not a feeling."
Part of me hopes this is true b/c then we can truly be open to giving our hearts to someone new. It's hard to believe that can happen but I have heard LOTS of stories (from people I know) about how love "the second time around" was so much sweeter b/c they realized how precious it was & not to take it for granted.
If D does happen I hope this is true for everyone here who goes through it!
M- 18 T-21 S-14,11 & 10 BD 6-18-2012 (OW-EA) H moved out 11-3-2012 10-5-13 Me- I want a divorce. I want to move on w my life. 11-25-13 Jointly filed.