Again Tori is spot on... she should write a book!

LR, my W said the same thing, that she never was in love with me. Yet she married me, and stayed committed for 29 years with few complaints. Of course it doesn't add up, but it their perception for now. There is nothing to be gained by trying to convince them otherwise.

Let her go. Build an exciting and fulfilling life for yourself. Doing this is not only the best way to cope, but it also makes us more attractive.


M: A really long time.
Crisis: 5 years.
She's still worth it.

Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl