Wow so many questions. On her cake eating SM its bad real bad. I can't believe the audacity of your W at this point. I know you've been told over and over but when will you put a stop to this madness SM? The cake eating needs to stop now its not attractive you letting her walk all over you.
So IF and it's a big if at this point you R you plan on showing her how hurt you were and how much PRIDE you had to swallow for her? WTF SM way to play a martyr there. How do think that would help your M?
I'm in agreement with Mr Bond,this is like a game to you. When are you going to stop looking for tactics and easy ways to restore your M? Everyday you do this you lose ground and its time you lose the scorecard it will kill any chance of a R. You have a lot of work to do on you SM and its time you get started you're 2.5 months behind.
M 44 W 43 S 23 S 15 INILWY 9/11 Divorce Mediation started 3/13 June 30 the day W is moving out