He doesn't have to be an alcoholic. They don't ask when you get there but you find that there are people in situations similar to yours. They won't ask you anything and you don't have to say anything, just listen and gain strength.

It seems you have few options for in person help. AlAnon is free, try a meeting or 2 before you say no. Don't let fear hold you back.


Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss