Sounds like you're moving in the right direction with your boundaries. You having strong boundaries will also keep you from straying into territory that isn't yours.

I've read many books on boundaries as this is also an issue of mine. You might like Boundaries by Townsend and Cloud. They have a website, check it out.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss