GTO, you've been given some tough but good advice.

When they said, "You are worth more than this, stop pursuing him." They are right.

I know how hard this is, and how incomprehensible it is to receive this treatment from who you thought would be your life partner...but you must give him the space he needs now.

I agree with letting the kids visit him.

You've been so kind to me, and I thank you. I'm sending you a big, big hug.