I cannot stress what Eric said enough. I read that and was shaking my head in agreement/solidarity and jumping out of my seat as I read it.
I'm animated I suppose.
But that is *exactly* the same experience I have with my ex. And she's remarried already. I have to stop and be sure to not be pulled back into the drama. She'll do it in a heartbeat. Like you two, I have rarely received coherent sentences. She tries to pull me back in. So I do the exact same as Eric mentions, although I've been at the email only thing since she left the house and kids. I needed the written trail as she can't seem to recall things very well unless they are in her favor
As for responses - nope. Not unless absolutely required.
I recently asked me pastor to sanity check me. My ex was taking cheap shots at me (his words) and I was losing clarity due to the subject. I have not responded at all. He scolded me for even responding prior to that. He was right.
My *wife* is gone. Long gone. My ex seems to hang on like a bad cold
No response or written only so you can keep track will help.
Hang in there!
AJ
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."
